How to Ask For and Send Nudes Without Being a Creep

Our product picks are editor-tested, expert-approved. We may earn a commission through links on our site. Swapping naked pics is not only a great way to build sexual anticipationbut it can make your tedious workday a lot more exciting as long as your screen isn't visible to any coworkers. There's nothing like a hot pic from someone you're crushing on to help you fill out those TPS reports. But initiating the swapping of nudes can seem daunting. For starters, how do you go about asking for nudes without coming off as a creep? You have to be thoughtful about sending nudes, too. As with any sexual activity, consent is a must—and depending on how your partner receives it, an unsolicited dick pic could even be illegal.

Porn viewership is up, sex toy sales are through the roof, and cam sites are doing well, too. There's an insatiable need for connection—sexual association, specifically. It is high time designed for nudes. The act of sending a big cheese nude photos is a salad of risk, vulnerability, and intimacy—some of the most important ingredients of horniness. Although it once was somewhat taboo, it's standard, if still spicy, fare these days. Virtually everyone surveyed is by least on board with sexts, although how do you make the be frightened from flirty sexting to nudes? After that how, if called upon, do you take a hot pic yourself? Accede to me—and some of my fellow bare enthusiasts—tell you the rules.