13 things you should know before dating a bi girl

We exist. We weren't just waiting for you to come along and help us make up our minds. Please don't go down the pub and tell your mates you've turned a lesbian. You really haven't. We're not going to be defined by our relationship with you. As a bi woman, being in a same-sex couple doesn't make us a lesbian, any more than being in an opposite-sex couple makes us straight. Don't erase our identities and pasts. OMG NO. Bisexual does not equal non-monogamous.

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By OprahMag. When I first met my now-husband in AprilI made a advantage of telling him about my account of dating both men and women—and how I came out as bisexual at 16 years old to my friends and family, who offered assort reactions. My friends were supportive; my family didn't quite understand. But so as to confusion I first encountered with my parents is a common reaction designed for anyone who identifies as a bisexual person. For me, this means so as to I am attracted to both cisgender men and women, though I am also attracted to others like trans women and men on the femininity spectrum.