Finding a Dominant/submissive play partner

This is a guest post by Mistress Steel. It was part of her Steel's Chamber Scrolls which is now defunct. Shared with Permission. Are you looking for a magic spell? That unique formulae that will guarantee you the results you want? Well, there isn't any trick. Not really If you are looking for a lifetime partner, that one special person to share your life with, then you start at the beginning. First you sit down and identify who you are.

After that how do you know this person will be a good fit designed for your fantasies? Asking sounds easy, right? Stranger from the Internet: Hey sexy, wow your boobs are big. I love my face sat on, accede to my mouth and nose be your seat. Stranger from the Internet: You will bow down to me after I come into your bedroom. A lot of BDSM-minded folks, much like in vanilla dating, have a checklist of things they want to experience. Lots of us have fetish lists or wishlists or what I call 'fucket lists'. Letting the list drive the interactions with new power exchange partners be able to be misleading and a turn bad.

I miss it. How do I achieve such a person? I can help! This is actually a complicated question… maybe even more complicated than you realize. You mention that you avoid it, so you are experienced all the rage BDSM.