A Shy Girl's Guide to Domination

Within the kink community, there are all types of dominant and submissive roles, each with their own layer of nuance. Think of gentle femdom as female domination without the elements of pain, harsh punishment, or humiliation. It can be sexual, only BDSM-based, or role-based. As Carol QueenPhD, resident sexologist at Good Vibrationssays, gentle femdom is more infused with love and nurturing. The erotic component of gentle femdom can be pleasure-focused or it can just be about dominance without pain and intensity that is often associated with non-gentle kink play.

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Can you repeat that? do you think of when you hear the word Dominatrix? Do you imagine some lady in high-heels after that a piercing glare? Maybe she has on leather boots that come ahead to her kneecaps, and is meeting on a throne with a beat in one hand, and a beaker in the other. No matter can you repeat that? image you hold, it's probably appealing narrow. The truth is that a Dominatrix could be the unassuming booklover at your local library, a Affluence CEO, and any shade of amazing in between.