17 Women Discuss the Moment They Knew They Were Bisexual

Are you feeling a little, uh, bi-curious and don't know what to do about it? Well, darling, you've come to the right place. I'm here, I'm queer and I'm ready to give bi-curious advice to any girl in need. And really, who hasn't been hungry for bi-curious advice at some point in their lives?

Ciao, straight men. I like you. At the same time as someone who has been on equally sides of the lady sexing equation, I feel like I am amazingly positioned to do you a concrete. A solid that may boomerang comfortably in my favor one day, accurate, but mostly a solid that bidding help you and women and the spreading of joy in general. Around is no Konami code for accomplishment women off. We all would. You know why queer women have femininity once and then end up dating for three to seventy-five years?

Although if you're looking for a all-purpose definition of what it means en route for be bisexual, feeling romantic or sexual attraction to more than one femininity could be a sign, according en route for the Human Rights Campaign. Others can find themselves identifying more with labels like pansexualqueerfluidor nothing at all—which is also completely valid. So to advantage clear this up a bit, we spoke with 17 women who be able to recall a pivotal moment in their lives when they knew they were bisexual. I had been with barely men up until that point, along with really no happiness. Or girl. Who knows? The second I laid eyes on the actress playing Penny, a lightning bolt went through me. I started to daydream about meeting her and asking her on a date—things I used to only associate along with men.