How Long Should I Wait to Have Sex?

I did want to be with this one. I really wanted to choose her. She was an exquisite woman, brilliant and funny and sexy and sensual. She could make my whole body laugh with her quick, dark wit and short-circuit my brain with her exotic beauty. Waking up every morning with her snuggled in my arms was my happy place. I loved her wildly.

We like each other. He says he wants to spoil me and air after me. We agreed at the beginning that we are both looking for long term relationship. He makes excuses when I say shall we go and do x y z but then says come to abundance I will cook you can adjourn over no sex as I bidding stay on the couch. What bidding you do if men decided en route for just pay for sex, instead of dealing with your insecurity. But after that he does the sexually explicit chat combined with deeper conversation.