Freaky Friday: Why is Vacation/Hotel Sex The Best?

Freaky Friday: Every Friday a new post dealing with love, relationships, dating…and anything else the human soul may need answered. I had a business trip years ago and the hotel I would be staying at was beautiful: a five star hotel on the water, with incredible views. I wanted my then boyfriend there with me to take in the magic. We were having a bit of trouble and I thought some time away would do us some good. We spent the weekend in the complimentary plush bathrobes; got into the mini bar snacks, and I brought some red wine for the trip. It was heaven! We reconnected and all the relationship worries seemed to disappear. It's not that our love making was anything really different from when we were home; same sort of dance of anyone that's been together and knows each other.

En route for me, sex is like basketball: a pleasurable activity you can do along with alone or with others, with varying degrees of formality. And pickup basketball can be quite invigorating. After four years with an exclusive, committed affiliate, they usually know at least four to six things that you consistently like doing. Casual sex , of course, can suffer from its freshness or lack of intimacy on occasion—we all have lackluster one night abide stories. But casual sex offers freshness. Because the delicate bubble of accidental sex is very easily burst, at this juncture are some guidelines for making accidental sex… well, casual. Own more than one towel. Own at least at the same time as many pillows as there are femininity participants. Perhaps the most important affair to have on hand?

Along with all the nefarious booty calls so as to take place in hotel rooms, you would think that going about it would be more straightforward. Certainly, a person can make a desperate, last-minute appeal to a scuzzy motel and accomplish what needs to be done, although if out-of-the-house sexual rendezvous are at the same time as frequent an occurrence in your animation as they are in mine, after that it pays to be selective a propos what suffices for doing dirty deeds. Having a full-time husband at abode means hotels have become a approach of life for me in maintaining healthy, consensually non-monogamous relationships outside of my primary partnership. There are a lot of reasons why I typically book a room rather than use my little San Francisco one-bedroom.